From The Big Issue a couple weeks ago (so, hopefully okay for me to put up.
It kinda resonated with me on a bunch of levels - espesh the bit about forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to like them LOL - or that you are implicitly condoning their bullshit. It's a middle-ground I'd never quite considered.
If you live in #Yeovil snag your Big Ish from the lady who sells it outside W H Smiths / M&S - she's usually around Wed - Fri - though, worryingly, I didn't spot her last week.
Digital version of article here.